Christianity has brought us into the faith that God is always present in our life and that He provides all our needs in order to be happy and fulfilled in an abundant life. The same is true with Christian marriage. It serves as not mere rules obligated to follow, but an ideal way to make healthy relationships and rewarded married life to a couple. Maybe your marriage is not where it should or could be. Perhaps it is even headed for divorce. You may be in great pain, feeling the constant agony of a crippled relationship. It may be that you see the writing on the wall, or perhaps your spouse has even said it: your marriage is headed straight into the ground! You may have given up all hope. Maybe you are terrified, but still hopeful.Click Here to take Godly action on saving your Marriage Now!!! I am here to tell you that it can change. In fact, I am here to tell you that your marriage can not only be restored, but can actually become the marriage of your dreams! You really are married to your soul-mate!
We live in a culture that constantly calls us away from our marriage. In fact, we live in a society that not only approves of divorce, it makes it easy to get. But together, you and I can work to change that, saving one marriage at a time, starting with yours! Actually, it will be you, me, and God making that change possible.
Divorce and broken marriages is not God’s plan. God’s plan was for marriage to be a lifetime. As I’m sure you have heard often, in Genesis 2:24, God tells us that “for this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife. And the two people will become one body. “When we become one body, it is a forever thing.
Tip #1: Don’t panic.
First, don’t panic. Marriage is fragile, handle with care. Anxiety rarely helps us think clearly. Often, when feeling anxious, we react instead of respond thoughtfully. Our best decisions occur after rest, Godly counsel, and reflection. The wisest man on Earth said, “When times are good, be happy; but when times are bad, consider; God has made the one as well as the other.” (Ecclesiastes 7:14)
Tip #2: Avoid harming your soul mate.
Do nothing to harm or injure your mate. While things don’t look good, sometimes the best action is no action. Stop doing the things that aggravate the situation. Cancel the appointment with the attorney. Don’t do anything that places you in an adversarial role with your mate. Stop doing those things you know irritate your mate. Stopping the haemorrhage saves many lives. Make the decision to do no harm.
Tip #3: Learn to understand your partner.
Third, meet your mate at their point of need. Consider what your mate needs. Some of the things she may be making perfectly clear to you, such as a need for space. Some of her needs may be unspoken, and you’ll need to figure those out for yourself. Perhaps she has a need for respect. Give it to her, even in the midst of being separated. Perhaps she has a need to be valued and treasured. Give it to her, in small but significant ways.
Tip #4: Express yourself.
Fourth, become the best version of yourself you can be. This tragedy is an opportunity for you to remember why your wife fell in love with you. What are the characteristics that made you irresistible twenty years ago? Reflect and resurrect those old qualities. It’s time to again become daring, adventuresome, caring and charming. These qualities won her heart once before; they may do so again.
Tip #5: Commit everything to prayer
Fifth, commit everything to prayer. The Scripture is clear: “Unless the Lord builds the house, its builders labour in vain.” (Psalms 127:1) You must seek the Lord’s guidance and follow his lead. Prayer is your pathway to peace. Prayer not only can change her heart, but yours. Then you can feel the peace of God in your heart and life.
Tip #6: Go on a Date
Finally, once the storm has settled try and re-kindle that moment back in time when you first dated, talk about it together as if you are reminiscing all over again. Now rather than just talking about it get dressed up and take her dancing just like you did when you first courted, make it special and better than it was the first time, pay special attention to detail. God can miraculously reverse the damage and reset your footing all over again.
Click Here to take Godly action TODAY!!!
We live in a culture that constantly calls us away from our marriage. In fact, we live in a society that not only approves of divorce, it makes it easy to get. But together, you and I can work to change that, saving one marriage at a time, starting with yours! Actually, it will be you, me, and God making that change possible.
Divorce and broken marriages is not God’s plan. God’s plan was for marriage to be a lifetime. As I’m sure you have heard often, in Genesis 2:24, God tells us that “for this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife. And the two people will become one body. “When we become one body, it is a forever thing.
Tip #1: Don’t panic.
First, don’t panic. Marriage is fragile, handle with care. Anxiety rarely helps us think clearly. Often, when feeling anxious, we react instead of respond thoughtfully. Our best decisions occur after rest, Godly counsel, and reflection. The wisest man on Earth said, “When times are good, be happy; but when times are bad, consider; God has made the one as well as the other.” (Ecclesiastes 7:14)
Tip #2: Avoid harming your soul mate.
Do nothing to harm or injure your mate. While things don’t look good, sometimes the best action is no action. Stop doing the things that aggravate the situation. Cancel the appointment with the attorney. Don’t do anything that places you in an adversarial role with your mate. Stop doing those things you know irritate your mate. Stopping the haemorrhage saves many lives. Make the decision to do no harm.
Tip #3: Learn to understand your partner.
Third, meet your mate at their point of need. Consider what your mate needs. Some of the things she may be making perfectly clear to you, such as a need for space. Some of her needs may be unspoken, and you’ll need to figure those out for yourself. Perhaps she has a need for respect. Give it to her, even in the midst of being separated. Perhaps she has a need to be valued and treasured. Give it to her, in small but significant ways.
Tip #4: Express yourself.
Fourth, become the best version of yourself you can be. This tragedy is an opportunity for you to remember why your wife fell in love with you. What are the characteristics that made you irresistible twenty years ago? Reflect and resurrect those old qualities. It’s time to again become daring, adventuresome, caring and charming. These qualities won her heart once before; they may do so again.
Tip #5: Commit everything to prayer
Fifth, commit everything to prayer. The Scripture is clear: “Unless the Lord builds the house, its builders labour in vain.” (Psalms 127:1) You must seek the Lord’s guidance and follow his lead. Prayer is your pathway to peace. Prayer not only can change her heart, but yours. Then you can feel the peace of God in your heart and life.
Tip #6: Go on a Date
Finally, once the storm has settled try and re-kindle that moment back in time when you first dated, talk about it together as if you are reminiscing all over again. Now rather than just talking about it get dressed up and take her dancing just like you did when you first courted, make it special and better than it was the first time, pay special attention to detail. God can miraculously reverse the damage and reset your footing all over again.
Click Here to take Godly action TODAY!!!